Snapchat, the popular mobile messaging application, integrates a "best friends" system that helps you keep track of whom you interact with on it the most. Based on whom you chat with on Snapchat most frequently (or not), Snapchat may assign a different "emoji" – a small symbol representing a person, emotion, activity, or object – to that friend on your Friends List.
But what if you want these symbols to show up for different friends? Or what if you don't want these symbols to show up at all? Is there anything you can do? We'll explain the answers in this article.
"Best Friends" on Snapchat are friends whom you send messages to often, and/or who send messages frequently to you. Depending on how regularly you and a friend interact with each other, the emoji used to represent your "best friend" status will change – for you, them, and your other friends.
Note that Snapchat keeps track of the specific number of times you interact with a certain friend, as well as the total number of times you've sent or viewed messages. These numbers not only factor into who are your "best friends", but they also contribute to your "score" on Snapchat, which you can find beside the user name of pretty much anyone on Snapchat.
If you tap your own score, you can see a tally of the number of messages you've sent versus the number you've viewed.
These are the default "best friend" emojis on Snapchat. If you'd like to customize them, instructions for doing so can be found in this help article on Snapchat.
BFs (Best Friends)
This is a friend whom you send a lot of messages to. They may also send a lot of messages to you, but not the most out of all their friends.
Their BF, But...
This friend sends you a lot of messages, but you don't send many messages back to them (or at least not the most of all your friends).
This friend has at least one "best friend" who is also one of your "best friends." Maybe you two could become "best friends," too!
This friend's "#1 best friend" is the same as your "#1 best friend." Does that make you two rivals?
This is the friend whom you send the most messages to, and you are their friend whom they send the most messages to.
BFF (Best Friend Forever)
You and this friend have been each other's "#1 best friends" for at least two weeks.
You and this friend have been each other's "#1 best friends" for at least two months.
Snapchat doesn't currently let you manually choose who your "best friends" are. It also doesn't let you disable "best friend" emojis, though you can customize them. The best you can do is either delete users from your friends list entirely, or just change how often you interact with them.
The good news is that nobody except you can see who all your "best friends" are by going to your Friends List. Your friends can, however, see if they have "best friends" in common with you (as denoted by the "Mutual BFs" and "Mutual Besties" emojis).
Snapchat assigns you "best friends" based on how often you exchange messages with them, right? So, all you have to do is send more messages to the friends whom you want to be your "best friends"! Conversely, just stop sending messages to friends for whom you want to remove the "best friend" status.
If you really don't want someone to be your "best friend" on Snapchat, you can remove them from your Friends List altogether. Here's how to do that:
That's about everything we can tell you about changing or removing your "best friends" on Snapchat! If you want to learn how to add friends or chat with them – or do any of Snapchat's other basic functions, for that matter – be sure to head over to our Snapchat course!
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